This happens to me all the time, but you can't rape the willing! These people are fierce...
Monday, August 30, 2010
Sunday, August 29, 2010
I thought I was tripping when a fake Amanda picture that I took friend requested me, but it was fun to revisit this apparently popular entry that I keep getting responses about!
Saturday, August 28, 2010
So I'm at Leee's party w my bytchez and this obese man is silently physically moving in on my main gf as we stand talking to someone with out backs to him. He then moves in more aggressively, breathing deep and smelly. So I take up a little more space and expand myself and back up a little a few times and sort of rotate and... basically push him away from our personal space with my huge ass. I have to say his huge stomach over my big ass shelf situation was bizarre for a few moments in terms of masses of form in conflict, but it was quick and he moved away. Then he came back when we were sitting down having cake. He kept trying to talk to my fiend and move in but she always knows what's going on and was busy in her friends ear and even gave him the hand a few times. So he grabs a little leather sitting cube and squats down on it in his huge striped puff sweat pants high waters tapered at the ankle (with camel toe) (w/ dirty sneakers below that didn't match) and moves in. The girls still ignore so he starts to try and get my attention. I ignore but it isn't working for me so I ask what he wants he he says my blonde friend. I say that she's my girlfriend and he is doubtful - then it was all over: Stella read him as only she could and he got the fuck away real fast.
He was then seen moving in on a big buxom blonde singer that performed there. He was using the same crotch first personal space hog approach and it really looked frightening from afar as this blonde flipped her hair and tried to focus on the conversation she was having with someone. Then the hostess, Cynthia, intervened and he said that he was a former Yankee player. She said that may be so but you can't come out dressed and acting like that and expect people to talk to you.
Hiding the ring on his finger from the shot.
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Monday, August 23, 2010
Friday, August 20, 2010
Thursday, August 19, 2010
I was approached 3x this week on sex sites by guys who were recently diagnosed as a result of a cheating bf. 3 times. I was able to retrieve two of the profiles:
-Handsome sporty poz looking for similar guys or guys who can see past that
"Im a handsome sporty guy who happens to be positive because of a cheating bf. Ive been positive for a year and i take my meds so im undetectable. I'm looking for someone similar for a connection. I know there are others like me out there who are positive and feel like its hard to find normal guys in the same situation. Well here I am. More pix on demand."
-Good guys find me if you're out there
"Looking for loyal kind hearted people to have in my life. I am tired of the negativity that is involved in the normal dating scene. It seems most gay men have this sick affinity for hurting others, or for wanting to play "hard to get" dating games. Sometimes I feel like it is to much to just want to find someone to be with, who wants the best for me and is loyal. Successful confident guys think if you admit you want love it makes you weak or desperate....but to me it just shows I am human.
I found out this past October my ex boyfriend had been cheating on me over the summer and gave me HIV. It has been an interesting journey so far."
So I don't doubt that this type of infection happens often or a lot, but something is fishy about these confessional profiles. First of all, they are on a pretty hard fast moving cut and dry hook up site (guess which), but aside from that I've always found this whole 'I got it from an unfaithful bf' thing to have this sort of grace about it that seems like a bunch of horse crap. Like if it happened to you in this manner then you are indeed a true victim and not gross like everyone else who got it some other way. It actually makes me appreciate people who got it drugged up in an anonymous unsafe gang bangs much more. I mean come on, nobody got it from sitting on a church pew. Well... maybe. In a way, the irresponsibility of the bf load taker is more deep seeded (sorry) and psychologically screwed up on a long term basis because they were having unsafe sex with someone for some time under the safety net of just monogamy alone, which is way weaker than latex. I just don't buy it. These boo-hoo-bf situations (if fabricated) seem to relieve the newly infected from all the things about hiv which our society still can't let go of: reckless pleasure, drug use and a general uncleaaaaaaaaaaan...
I'll try and make my posts a little cheerier in the near future.